We could go the easy route and rent a banquet hall, reserve a church, or call up the closest country club and be done with it. But Nathan and I are not most people. We are determined to get hitched in a place that is different. Unique. Personal. Unfortunately we've decided to get married on Long Island, which is probably the least unique (and most expensive!) place on the planet. Still, there are some interesting venues to be found. I did some preliminary searching while I was home for the holidays and ended up visiting three places - two of which we decided against, one of which is a definite maybe.
Venue #1: The Long Island Museum
PROS: The Long Island Museum has a great exhibit of carriages, which is strange enough to spark interesting small talk, but not so bizarre that our families will disown us. I liked the dark wood paneling in the carriage museum and the strangeness of the carriages themselves. Also, the site fee was right within our budget. CONS: The best place to hold the ceremony was outdoors, which just won't do for a November wedding. The alternate room we could use instead looked like a school cafeteria. And the largest room, which we could use for the reception, was not big enough for dinner and a dance floor, and I must have dancing at my wedding. VERDICT: If we were having a smaller, summertime wedding, it would be a strong contender. But we're not, so it isn't.
Venue #2: The Barn
PROS: I love the idea of getting married in a barn - if that's not Nathan and Chrissy, then I don't know what is. The area where it's located is beautiful, there are cows in a nearby field, and the barn itself has a lovely rustic charm. CONS: The barn isn't heated, so we'd have to figure that out. The barn is also kind of small, so we'd have to rent a tent and tables and chairs for dinner. Which would be okay, except the site fee (for what is essentially an unheated, bare bones barn) is $4,000. I don't care how cute your barn is - that is just way too high. Also the bathrooms are located in a trailer outside (it's actually a really nice trailer, but still) and there's no where for me to hang out with the bridal party prior to the actual marriage. VERDICT: If the site fee were cheaper, I would find a way to make it work. As it is, they are charging too much for too little. Bye, bye barn.
Venue #3: The Science Museum of Long Island
I'm planning to visit Long Island again in March for a few days during spring break, and by then I hope to have a few more options to look at. My goal is to have a venue secured before I come back to North Carolina. Wish me luck! (And if you know of any cool, weird, and awesome places on Long Island that I've overlooked, please share!)