Monday, November 12, 2012

We're Married!


More soon (so much more!) but it will have to wait until after I clean my house, finish my homework, go to class, hydrate, and - if I'm lucky - catch up on sleep. For now, here's a reading Nathan's parents gave during the ceremony. It's wonderful and beautiful and perfect, just like our wedding.

More soon. <3

Union 
by Robert Fulghum

You have known each other from the first glance of acquaintance to this point of commitment. At some point, you decided to marry. From that moment of yes, to this moment of yes, indeed, you have been making commitments in an informal way. All of those conversations that were held in a car, or over a meal, or during long walks – all those conversations that began with, “When we’re married”, and continued with “I will” and “you will” and “we will” – all those late night talks that included “someday” and “somehow” and “maybe” – and all those promises that are unspoken matters of the heart. All these common things, and more, are the real process of a wedding.

The symbolic vows that you are about to make are a way of saying to one another, “You know all those things that we’ve promised, and hoped, and dreamed – well, I meant it all, every word.”

Look at one another and remember this moment in time. Before this moment you have been many things to one another – acquaintance, friend, companion, lover, dancing partner, even teacher, for you have learned much from one another these past few years. Shortly you shall say a few words that will take you across a threshold of life, and things between you will never quite be the same.

For after today you shall say to the world –
This is my husband. This is my wife.

14 comments:

  1. Congrats friends!! Looking forward to hear more about your awesome weekend!

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  2. Yay, congratulations!!! Can't wait to see more photos soon!

    Wishing you all the best!
    S.

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  3. Congratulations, Chrissy and Nathan! I can't wait to hear more about the big day.

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  4. Congratulations - I hope you had a fantastic day :)

    Sarah @ A Cat-Like Curiosity

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  5. Congratulations! I really love that reading , too.

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  6. Congratulations!!!!
    We had that same reading at our wedding 4 years ago - love it!

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